Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.
Stay fabulous,
Luce 💋
When people talk about healthy boundaries, they often make them sound harsh.
As if a boundary is something you build to keep people out.
I’ve never quite seen it that way.
A good boundary is more like a garden fence.
It doesn’t stop people from visiting. It simply shows them where the path is.
The people who care about you will usually respect that fence without much fuss. The people who don’t may complain that it exists at all.
One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is that saying “no” to one thing often means saying “yes” to something else.
Yes to your time.
Yes to your energy.
Yes to your peace of mind.
Healthy relationships aren’t built on one person giving endlessly while the other keeps taking. They’re built on mutual respect, honesty and understanding.
The truth is that boundaries aren’t there to push people away.
They’re there to help good relationships last.
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