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What does ”having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?

Darling,
The phrase “having it all” gets tossed around like confetti at a wedding — sparkly, exciting, but impossible to clean up once it settles.

So what does it mean to me?
Well, sugar, I used to think “having it all” meant a corner office, a shoe closet that echoed, and someone who brought me coffee without asking how I take it. I thought it meant being dazzling, admired, successful — all while effortlessly balancing relationships, health, finances, and a social life so vibrant it needed its own Google calendar.

Spoiler alert: it’s exhausting.

Because here’s the truth no one tells you — “having it all” is often just another way of saying “doing too much.”

And sugar, I’ve done too much. I’ve smiled through burnout. I’ve added glitter to an empty tank. I’ve said yes when I should’ve curled up with tea and silence. And for what? A checklist someone else wrote?

These days, I’ve rewritten the definition.
Having it all now means:

• Waking up and liking who I am.
• Dancing without filming it.
• Having just enough clothes to feel fabulous but not so many I forget what joy feels like.
• Knowing my boundaries — and actually keeping them.
• Laughing so hard I snort (preferably in public).
• Being loved for who I am, not who I’m performing to be.

And is that attainable?
Yes.
But only when you stop chasing everything and start cherishing something.

So no, I don’t want it all anymore.
I want enough. I want meaning.
I want joy, good coffee, silly friends, strong hips, and the kind of love that doesn’t keep score.

Let the world chase perfection.
I’ll be here chasing peace — in heels, if I must.

Stay fabulous,
Luce 💋

Psst! While you’re here sipping coffee with me, the others are busy behind the scenes cooking up something fabulous (and actually educational, unlike my sass).

Their latest guide for pet parents drops today at 3 p.m. sharp.
You won’t want to miss it — trust me, I’ve seen the draft and even I learned something.